3 Top Tips for Gaining Confidence
Hello!
Everyone goes through confidence problems at some point in their life and I have experienced this too. Whether you are going through tough times growing up or have just been rejected for a job, we all go through hard times when we lose our confidence. I wanted to share some top tips for gaining confidence and feeling happier about who you are.
Tip 1: Smile at yourself
This is very simple but I found it really effective. Smiling at yourself in the mirror every morning can make you feel that one bit happier. 'Every little helps' as some people say so even the tiniest action like a smile can help you feel more confident. Try to banish any bad thoughts from your head and just be happy.
Tip 2: Be you
This tip is about not trying to be someone that you're not. Sometimes people go through a phase of trying to be like someone else to get more friends or to make people like you. There is no point pretending to be someone you are not. Be the person that you are. Then people will like you for being you. If you feel like you have to change your personality to fit in with your friends then maybe you should look for some new friends. If they are true friends then they will like you for being who you are. Wear the clothes that you want to wear. Do the things that you want to do. Behave the way that you want to behave.
Tip 3: Do the things that you love to do
As you have probably guessed from my posts, one of my hobbies is music and I love it. I play in an orchestra outside of school and this is one of the places that I feel most confident and happy. This is because everyone there loves music so we all have something in common. By doing the things that you love, you will find people who love them too and it will be easier to get on with them. You will feel more confident doing the things that you love with people who love it too. Whether you are a music maniac or a football fanatic, there are many clubs around and you will find something that suits you. If you haven't discovered something you really love, try something new!
I hope that you try these tips out. Let me know if you have any other ideas that have worked. Leave a comment or drop me an email.
Bye!
Everyone goes through confidence problems at some point in their life and I have experienced this too. Whether you are going through tough times growing up or have just been rejected for a job, we all go through hard times when we lose our confidence. I wanted to share some top tips for gaining confidence and feeling happier about who you are.
This is very simple but I found it really effective. Smiling at yourself in the mirror every morning can make you feel that one bit happier. 'Every little helps' as some people say so even the tiniest action like a smile can help you feel more confident. Try to banish any bad thoughts from your head and just be happy.
Tip 2: Be you
This tip is about not trying to be someone that you're not. Sometimes people go through a phase of trying to be like someone else to get more friends or to make people like you. There is no point pretending to be someone you are not. Be the person that you are. Then people will like you for being you. If you feel like you have to change your personality to fit in with your friends then maybe you should look for some new friends. If they are true friends then they will like you for being who you are. Wear the clothes that you want to wear. Do the things that you want to do. Behave the way that you want to behave.
Tip 3: Do the things that you love to do
As you have probably guessed from my posts, one of my hobbies is music and I love it. I play in an orchestra outside of school and this is one of the places that I feel most confident and happy. This is because everyone there loves music so we all have something in common. By doing the things that you love, you will find people who love them too and it will be easier to get on with them. You will feel more confident doing the things that you love with people who love it too. Whether you are a music maniac or a football fanatic, there are many clubs around and you will find something that suits you. If you haven't discovered something you really love, try something new!
I hope that you try these tips out. Let me know if you have any other ideas that have worked. Leave a comment or drop me an email.
Bye!
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